Remembering their sacrifice 100 years on

With the 100th anniversary of the armistice rapidly approaching, I wanted to pay tribute to those members of our family who fought in "the war to end all wars". Some of them, captured by  patriotic fervour at the outbreak of war in 1914 bravely volunteered to serve their country, but as the war dragged on into 1916, the British Government was forced to introduce conscription which meant that married older men and fathers were forced to fight. My great-grandfathers, John Robert Melton and Charles James Upson were directly affected by this. 38 year old "Bob" Melton reported for duty with the 14th Battalion of the London Regiment (London Scottish) on 2nd August 1917. At the time, the married shipping clerk had 7 children between the ages of 3 and 16. 

Bob Melton with his wife Charlotte and daughter Kath

Charles, who oversaw the printing presses at the Ilford Recorder was also married and had 2 children; Violet aged 3 and Ivy, who was an 8th month old baby. The following excerpt from the Chelmsford Chronicle  shows that he lodged an appeal, but had his case dismissed. He subsequently joined the army and became a private in the Machine Gun Corps.

Excerpt from Chelmsford Chronicle dated 25th May 1917

I've recently been researching my great grandparents male siblings to see whether they served overseas in the First World War and managed to undercover some interesting stories. Bob's younger brother, Albert, volunteered with the 6th Battalion of the London Regiment (City of London Rifles) aged just 17. His regiment was dispatched to France on 17th August and formed part of the 47th (2nd London) Division that fought at the Battle of Loos. He only remained on the Western Front until 4th January 1916 and was discharged because he had lied about his age when he enlisted.

Charles's younger brothers also served in the First World War. Wilfred Owen Upson also joined the London Scottish and became Batman to Major Clowes. Rather than being some kind of caped crusader, a "Batman" is military terminology for a servant. He travelled to France with the regiment on 17th August 1915 and aside from a period of home leave in September 1917 remained there until April 1918. Arthur Upson served in the Army Pay Corps and the youngest brother, Albert Upson joined the Royal Navy and served on various land-based training facilities in Chatham and in Skegness. Neither saw front line action.

Charles's wife, my great grandmother Violet Lily Upson (formally Snow), had an older brother called Thomas Snow who was a Sergeant in the 4th Battalion of the Essex Regiment. He initially saw action in Gallipolli (August - December 1915) before being evacuated to the Greek island of Lemnos and then on to Alexandria (Egypt). The unit was later involved in the Palestinian campaign and fought at the 1st, 2nd and 3rd battles of Gaza.

My great-grandmother Ada Louisa Hewitt (formally Deacon), had a younger brother called William who joined the Royal Field Artillery. He served in France between 22nd June and 3rd December 1916. His unit was then moved to Salonika (in Greece) and remained there until 10th June 1917. After his stint in Greece he spent the remainder of the war in Alexandria (Egypt).

Perhaps the most heart-rending story I have found is that of William Edward Sherwood, the older brother of my great grandmother Charlotte Melton (formally Sherwood). At the outbreak of the war in 1914, Bill was a 36 year old wharf foreman living with his wife, Emily and their 2 children: Stanley aged 11 and Doris aged 8 in London's Limehouse. His life was turned upside down in 1915 as firstly his wife died in early in the year  and then his mother died suddenly on Christmas Day at her home on Salmon Lane of a brain haemorrhage. The family had been ripped to shreds and with the introduction of government conscription the following year, Bill found himself having to leave his children behind. Bill joined 19th Battalion London Regiment on 11th December 1916 and saw action at the Battle of Messines, the 3rd Battle of Ypres and at Cambrai, where on 29th November the unit took over the recently-captured Bourlon Wood just in time to be hit by a German counter-attack the following morning. The 1/19th Londons were badly affected by the enemy bombardment, particularly by gas shells. Out of 15 officers and over 600 men of the battalion who took up position in the wood, only 5 officers and 65 other ranks remained in the line by the end of the day, and many of those were later evacuated to hospital suffering the effects of gas. Unfortunately, it appears that Bill was one of those men. He was transported to Stationary Hospital No. 3 in Rouen and he succumbed to his injuries on 5th December 1917. He was laid to rest at the St Sever Cemetery Extension in Rouen and is commemorative certificate from the Commonwealth War Graves Commission is below:

Alf of all trades

George Alfred Melton was born on 1st September 1854 in Castleacre, Norfolk. Although christened George, the census records suggest he was probably known as Alfred or Alf. Shortly after his birth, the family moved to Norwich. His younger brother, Frederick, was born in Heigham, Norwich on 10th December 1855.

Birth certificate

Alf’s father, Fred, was a journeyman gardener and it seems likely that the family moved regularly. Indeed, according to the 1861 census the family had moved to the village of Ditchingham located close to the Norfolk Broads and the Suffolk border. Both Alf and his younger brother Fred were attending the local school at this time.

The transient nature of his father’s employment is bound to have had an impact on Alf. At some point in the 1860s he would have been forced to say goodbye to his school friends once his father had decided to take the family away from Norfolk. This must have been difficult for him. By 1871, Alf was living at 5 Moselle Street, Tottenham with his parents and younger brother. According to the census both Alf and Fred were working as ‘errand boys’.

At the age of nineteen, Alf married Sarah Ann Collison at the parish church of St James the Great in Bethnal Green on 23^rd March 1874. Sarah, aged just seventeen, was the daughter of a blacksmith and had grown up in the East End. St James the Great or the “Red Church” as it was known, was regarded at the time as a place where you could get married quickly with no questions asked. The vicar would apparently sell marriage licenses on the premises for a penny before conducting the service and the permission of the parents of the young couple probably wasn't sought.

At the time of the wedding, Alf was working as a cook and was living in Bethnal Green. The events that led up to this important milestone in Alf’s life are not clear. However, the railways must have played a part as Tottenham and Bethnal Green were, and still are, on the same line.

In the years that followed their wedding, it is apparent that Alf and Sarah lived at a number of addresses in the East End. Their first child Sarah Frances, was born in Mile End Old Town on 27^th December 1874. Sarah was baptised at St Thomas’s, Stepney on 2^nd July 1876 and at the time the family were living at 8 William Street in Mile End Old Town. Later that year, on 19^th December, Alf and Sarah’s first son, George Frederick Melton was born and their second son, John Robert Melton was born around eighteen months later on 16^th June 1879. At the time of John's birth, Alf was still working as a cook in a restaurant but they had moved to 11 Ann Street, Ratcliff. The street ran alongside the main London to Southend railway line and was situated between Commercial Road and Cable Street. Today this street is called Barnardo Street, named after the famous Dr Thomas Barnardo who opened his first home for boys nearby.

8-14 Ann Street, Ratcliff

The census taken on the night of 3^rd April 1881 showed that Alf and his family were still living at 11 Ann Street, Ratcliff. Alf was employed as a ‘workhouse porter’. By the late nineteenth century Great Britain had evolved into the world’s premier superpower thanks to the industrial revolution. Great Britain’s standing abroad concealed the shameful truth that thousands of people in the cities were living in poverty and squalor. The East End of London contained many of these unfortunate people: the marginalised, the poverty-stricken, the drink-sodden, the orphans, the immigrants, the criminal types, the unemployed and the revolutionaries. Alf’s time as a workhouse porter would have exposed him to the plight of many of these poor people and the experience is bound to have had a profound effect on him.

By the following year, Alf and Sarah had moved to 25J Juniper Street. Their new home was in a four-storey block of “model dwellings” that had been built in 1880 for the “respectable working class”. A staircase leading from the dark street lead to eight flats and although by today’s standards these places appear grim, they provided accommodation that was considered to be better than that found in the majority of houses in the district. Many of the poorer families living in the East End could not afford the rent which was around 5s a week and paid in advance but Alf’s wages had clearly enabled him to climb one rung up the ladder.

Juniper Street, Shadwell

Alf and Sarah had a new baby girl, Esther Emily Melton, early in 1882. Baby Esther was baptised at St Paul’s church, Shadwell on 26^th November but by then it is likely that the baby was already ill. Tragically, Esther died just over a week later on 4^th December. The cause of death is cited as “dentition, cerebral irritation” which suggests that teething problems were responsible for her untimely death.

With the death of baby Esther still fresh in their minds, Alf and Sarah decided it was time to get their two boys baptised. They were both baptised at St Paul’s church, Shadwell on 19^th January 1883. By this time, Alf was working as a “packer” possibly in a warehouse by the nearby docks.

Alf and Sarah had another daughter named Lily on 18^th September 1883 and she was baptised at St Paul’s, Shadwell on 5^th October. Their fourth daughter, Edith Emily was born on 22^nd February 1886. Throughout this period, Alf and his growing family remained at 25J                                                          Juniper Street.  

On the night of 30^th August 1888, a huge fire took hold in Shadwell Dry Dock. Many local people went down to the scene of the fire and as they lived nearby it is reasonable to speculate that Alf and Sarah were amongst them. As the firemen were damping down the following morning, news emerged of an “unfortunate” who had been murdered in Bucks Row, Whitechapel. The discovery of the body of Mary Ann Nicholls was the beginning of a series of murders which gripped the public imagination and baffled the police. Alf and Sarah would have undoubtedly read the newspapers and heard rumours on the streets but they were probably too busy bringing up their young family and providing a roof over their heads to concern themselves too much. Their daughter Edith was baptised at St Paul’s, Shadwell on 9^th November 1888 coincidentally this was the same day that Mary Kelly’s horribly mutilated body was discovered in Spitalfields.

During the so called “autumn of terror” Sarah had been pregnant again and in the early months of 1889 she gave birth to another baby girl who they named Emily Harriet. Just prior to Emily’s birth, in the previous November, the family moved to Cable Street where Alf established himself as a coffee tavern keeper.  The local trade directory for 1890 shows that Alf’s coffee rooms were situated at 263 Cable Street. The term coffee tavern described two types of premises. One type became popular in the mid/late Victorian period and were promoted by the temperance movement as an alternative to public houses. However, in the East End of London a coffee tavern could be likened to a modern “greasy spoon caff”. These were places were ordinary workers could sit and enjoy simple food.  

Article from the Lloyds Weekly
London Newspaper 31st Aug. 1890

At around 4pm on Wednesday 27^th August 1890, Alf witnessed a horrific accident on Cable Street. A four-wheeled van pulled by a pair of horses and loaded with 3 tons of cargo pulled out to overtake traffic. At that moment, a small girl, unseen by the driver, was lying in the road. She tried to get up but was run over. The driver immediately pulled up, but the girl was severely injured and taken to the children’s hospital, which was situated nearby in Glamis Road. She had to have both legs amputated and later died. George was called as a witness at the inquest which took place on the following Saturday at the Shadwell Vestry Hall. The coroner returned a verdict of accidental death and it was Alf’s evidence that helped to deflect blame away from the poor driver.

The 1891 census confirms that Alf was a ‘coffee tavern keeper’ at 265 Cable Street. He was living there with his wife and their six children. However, the Post Office street directory of 1894 shows that Alf’s coffee rooms had moved the short distance to 267 Cable Street which was located at the junction with Watney Street and was situated right next door to Shadwell station on the East London Railway. Alf and Sarah’s large family increased later that year with the birth of Alice Maud on                                                          13^th July 1894. Alice was baptised at St George in the East church on                                                      5^th August.

On 11^th September 1896 Alf and Sarah’s third son, Albert Thomas, was born and by the time he was baptised on 11^th October, Alf had given up the coffee rooms and had begun working as an “engineer”. Their new address was 31 Tillman Street which was a three-storey terraced house situated on the eastern side of the street just south of the board school. Charles Booth, the famous social researcher, visited the street between 1^st and 3^rd February 1898. Here is an extract from his notebook: South down Tillman Street, late Ann Street. 3 storey houses at south-east end put up by Chapman Estate get a respectable class, purple rather than light blue on the map. On the south west side, poor 2 storey houses- light blue. The purple on the map seems to have moved across the road into the newer houses.

Excerpt from Charles Booth Poverty Map 1898

Booth’s survey descriptions for the area show a wide gulf in the living conditions from street to street, from pinks along Cannon Street Road representing more respectable classes to the darker colours of Cornwall Street representing the most wretched homes. The whole area would have been shrouded in smog induced by coal smoke from homes, railways and industry. The streets would have been littered with filth including manure from the ubiquitous horse-drawn transport.

Lady Winterton in Tillman Street c1929
31 Tillman Street is in the 3-storey block
in the background

On 8^th April 1897, Alf and Sarah’s eldest son got married to Ann Morris, a local girl who was the same age as their son. The following year on 30^th November 1898, Alf and Sarah’s youngest child, Ada Elizabeth was born. A few days later on 4^th December, their eldest daughter, Sarah Frances, got married to a man named Albert Lawrence.   Finally, on Christmas Day 1898 Ada Elizabeth was baptised at St George in the East church. It had been a busy end to 1898.

The 1901 census shows that Alf and his family were living at 31 Tillman Street. Alf was working as a laundry engineer; his daughter Lily was working in a cigarette factory and daughter Edith Emily was a book folder. Living at the address with them were John and Rebecca Robinson and Rebecca’s mother, Helena Aspinall. It seems likely that Alf rented out the rooms at the top of the house to earn a bit of extra cash. In 1905 the electoral register shows that the two bedrooms on the top floor were being let (unfurnished) to a man by the name of James Standing and the records for subsequent years show that his daughter Lily and son in law, Charles Hannington, were living there. Incidentally Lily and Charles were married on 9^th                                                           April 1905 and it seems likely they moved in straight after the                                                                  wedding.

Family tree

The 1911 census shows Alf still living at 31 Tillman Street with his wife and their children Emily, Albert and Ada. Alf was now working as a ‘stationary engine driver/fitter’ which suggests his job involved attending to a large stationary steam driven engine. Though this is apparently different from his job in 1901, it is possible that a large steam engine may have been used at a large laundry. According to the census, his daughter, Edith had followed her elder sister and was working as a ‘cigarette packer’. Albert was an ‘office lad’ and Ada was at school.

By 1914, Alf had changed jobs again and was employed as a watchman, probably in one of the many riverside wharves. When he failed to return home from work on Tuesday 23rd June, his family must have been concerned. Their worries only grew as the days passed and he remained missing. Their worst fears were confirmed when, on Saturday 27th June, a body was pulled from the Thames at South Wharf, Rotherhithe. An inquest held at the Coroners Court on Monday 29th June held that death was due to accidental drowning. 

Extract from the Southwark and Bermondsey Recorder 3rd July, 1914

His sudden death must have come as an awful shock to his wife and children. It was a tragic ending to a man who evidently worked extremely hard to provide for his family. His work-ethic, which was no doubt instilled in him by his own father, enabled him to earn a living as a cook when he was a young man, scrape a living as a workhouse porter witnessing the harsh poverty of the East End, running his own coffee rooms, then when his business failed, learning to be an engineer before becoming a watchman in his final years. He wasn’t Jack of all trades, he was Alf of all trades and a remarkable man.

Annotated Goad Insurance Map

Ada Deacon

Ada Louisa Deacon was born on 3^rd June 1880 at 46 Clarence Gardens, Regents Park, London. She was the second daughter of John Rouse Deacon and Annie Deacon. Her father was a window blind maker and they all lived at the house with Ada’s older sister Lillian, Ada’s Grandmother Ann, Ada’s aunts Lillian and Annie and various different tenants who would stay at the house for short periods. Ada was christened at Christ Church on Albany Street, a short distance from the house, on 12^th September 1880.

The family increased in size in the 1880s with the births of Ada’s siblings John (circa 1883), William (6^th September 1884) and Daisy Caroline (21^st March 1889). By the time the 1891 census was taken the family had left Clarence Gardens and were residing at 106 Pancras Square. The likely reason for this move was that Ada’s grandmother wanted to take in more tenants and there was no room for the growing family and its noisy children.

In the decade that followed, the family increased further in size with the births of Marguerite on 1^st October 1891 and Eveline on 1^st July 1894. Ada and her family did not remain at 106 Pancras Square and indeed by the 1901 they’ve moved to 32 Ashdown Street, just off Queens Crescent in Kentish Town. Both Ada and her older sister Lillian were working as packers in a soap factory.

Family tree

Ada’s grandmother passed away in 1902 and following her death the family moved back to 46 Clarence Gardens. Ada had another younger sister, Winnifred,  on 15^th March 1904. By this time, Ada had met a young licensed victualler by the name of Herbert Hewitt. Back in 1901, Bert had been working in a pub called Dreghorn Castle on Queens Crescent, just around the corner from where Ada lived and it seems likely that they met across the bar in that pub.  The young couple married at Christ Church, Albany Street on 17^th April 1904. At the time of the wedding, Herbert was living next door at 48 Clarence Gardens.

Once married, Ada and Bert moved into the Gossett Arms at 111 Gossett Street in Bethnal Green where Bert had recently been granted a license. The following year, on 17^th July 1905, Ada gave birth to a son. They named him Herbert John Hewitt.

Ada and Bert left the Gossett Arms and less than five years later they had a daughter together. Lillian Alice Hewitt was born on 5^th March 1910. At the time of her birth, the family were living above a grocers and beer retailers at 21 Mare Street, Hackney. Her husband Bert is believed to have been working in the shop downstairs.

By the spring of the following year, Ada and Bert had moved again. By now they were living at 5 Sutherland Road, Bow. Bert was working as a barman at a pub on Highgate Hill called Whittington Stone and probably spent a lot of time away from home.

The long pub working hours and the commuting distance probably persuaded Bert and Ada to move closer to the pub. Another factor was that Ada was pregnant again. They moved into 4 Wedmore Gardens, Upper Holloway and Frederick Hewitt was born there on 13^th March 1912.

In August 1914 Britain found herself at war with Germany. Pub opening hours were drastically reduced in a bid to curb drunkenness among the soldiers on leave. This probably meant that Bert was at home a lot more often. Consequently, in the spring of the following year, Ada gave birth to their third son William Hewitt. 

On 10^th March 1917 Ada and Bert moved into The Plough public house on Ilford Lane, Ilford, Essex. By this time Ada was pregnant again and in the autumn she gave birth to their second daughter who they named Winnifred. Towards the end of the following year and with the First World War approaching its conclusion, Ada became pregnant once again. Daisy Eveline Hewitt was born on 25^th May 1919.

Ada and Bert now had 6 children. As Bert had regained his status as a licensed victualler it entitled him to send his youngest daughters to the licensed victualler’s boarding school in Slough. Win would have been sent away first in around 1922 and two years later she was followed by Daisy. The older children were not entitled to attend the school as they had been born before he had regained his licence.

Unfortunately, within months of Daisy being sent away to school, Bert’s health forced him to give up running the pub. He had been suffering from a stomach ulcer. Ada and Bert gave up the license on 8^th November 1924 and moved into a nearby property at 11 Harts Parade on Ilford Lane. Bert’s health deteriorated and poor Bert was rushed to hospital. Sadly Bert died on 20^th March 1925 due to a blood clot that had arisen through complications with his stomach ulcer. Ada was now a widow. 

To make matters worse for Ada she also had to cope with father’s poor health.  He was suffering from heart disease and was gradually deteriorating. He died on 5^th August, less than 5 months after losing her husband. For Ada the year 1925 was a year to forget.

Ada gradually rebuilt her life. She moved into 23 Twyford Road, Ilford with her children Lily, Fred and Bill. Her son Bert had joined the merchant navy and was mostly away at sea. Win and Daisy were still away at boarding school and only returned home outside term time.

Ada’s children grew up. Win and Daisy would have left school at the age of 14 in 1931 and 1933 respectively and on leaving school they returned home to Ilford. Daisy went on to work as a shop assistant at Barkers in Kensington High Street before landing a job at the local telecommunications firm Plessey. On 7^th January 1934 Lily married a butcher named Horace Lewsey. In the summer of 1934 Bert married a welsh lady named Gladys Lewis. In 1935 Ada’s first grandchildren arrived. On 27^th March Bert and Gladys had a son whom they named John Hewitt. A couple of months later, on 8^th July 1935, Valerie Ann Lewsey, daughter of Lily and Horace was born. Bert and Gladys had their second child, Margaret Hewitt, in spring 1938.

Extract from 1939 National Register

At the end of the 1930s, international tensions were once again increasing with the rise of Nazi Germany. With war looking like an increasingly likely prospect, a national register was taken in 1939. Although similar to a census, its main purpose was to provide data to enable the implementation of things like conscription and rationing. The extract from the register above shows how the household looked in 1939. Ada spent her time doing all the cooking and cleaning. Meanwhile her eldest son, Bert, is listed as a steward on The Britannic which was a transatlantic liner run by the White Star line. Fred is a wireless maker (at the Plessey factory in Vicarage Lane, Ilford), and Bill is a grocer’s shop assistant (like Granville in “Open All Hours” but hopefully without that vicious till). Win and Daisy’s names have been redacted.

Britain declared war on Germany on 3^rd September 1939 following Hitler’s invasion of Poland. All young men of a certain age were required to register for national service. Ada’s sons Fred and Bill were affected by this new law and were soon conscripted into military service. Fred joined the RAF and Bill joined the Royal Army Ordnance Corps. With many young men facing the prospect of travelling overseas to fight the enemy, there were a lot of weddings in the early years of the war. Win married Thomas Anderson on 21^st September 1940. Bill married Ada Downey a month later on 20^th October 1940. Ada’s youngest daughter Daisy married her sweetheart, Alan Melton, on 26^th April 1941. Within days of getting married the men were required to leave their loved ones behind to fight the enemy.

Back row (left to right): Lillian Lewsey (nee Hewitt), Daisy Melton (nee Hewitt) and Ada Hewitt (nee Downey)
Front row: Valerie Lewsey and Ada Hewitt (nee Deacon)

As the 1940s passed, Ada had more grandchildren. Win and Tom’s son, Craig Anderson, was born on 20^th September 1943.  Following the end of the war in 1945 Lily and Horace’s second child, a boy named Howard Lewsey, was born. In the following year there were two more births: Keith Alan Melton (son of Daisy and Alan) on 14^th June and Barbara Hewitt (daughter of Bill and Ada) on 25^th July. Ada’s youngest grandchild Barry Melton (son of Daisy and Alan) was born on 8^th July 1947. They were a close family anyway and with many of Ada’s grandchildren being of a similar age they often met up either for family gatherings or summer holidays to places like the Isle of Wight. Ada often came with them and it must have given her a great sense of satisfaction in those post-war years to see her children with families of their own.

It was only Ada’s son Fred who remained a bachelor. On leaving the RAF at the end of the war Fred decided to follow in the footsteps of his father and became a licensed victualler. On gaining his qualifications he became the landlord of the Flower Pot Hotel in the small Berkshire village of Aston close to Henley on Thames. Fred was to remain the landlord there for more than 40 years and The Flower Pot provided the ideal place for the other members of the family to escape to from time to time.

The Flower Pot Hotel, Aston

In time, Ada’s grandchildren grew up and her eldest grandson, John Hewitt, married Asuncion Visiedo Garcia in the autumn of 1959. Chon, as she liked to be known, was a nurse from Madrid in Spain. Within two years of the wedding Ada became a great-grandmother with the birth of their son John Hewitt in the spring of 1961. By this time Ada was becoming frail and had to give up her house in Twyford Road. She moved in with her eldest son and his wife. Bert and Gladys lived a couple of miles away at 5 Vernon Road, Seven Kings and the house backed onto the main railway line into London’s Liverpool Street station.

Ada became seriously ill with heart problems and passed away at Vernon Road on 12^th January 1962. Ada was 81 and had lived a long life during which she had witnessed many changes. She had been born during the reign of Queen Victoria and had lived through two world wars. Although she must have been immensely proud of her family she is bound to have felt a great sadness that she had lost her husband at the relatively young age of 44. She never married again.

John Robert Melton - Escaping the East End

John Robert Melton was born on the 16th June 1879 at 11 Ann Street, Ratcliff in London's East End. Known by the name Bob, his father worked a cook in a restaurant at the time of his birth. The census taken on the night of the 3rd April 1881 shows the young Bob still living at 11 Ann Street with his parents, older siblings Sarah Frances and George Frederick and his young aunt Eliza.

Bob was baptised on at St Paul’s church in Shadwell on 19^th January 1883. At the time, he and his family were living nearby at 25J Juniper Street, a newly-built tenement block for the “respectable” working class. This was home for the next five years. By 20^th November 1888, Bob had moved with his family to 263 Cable Street and was attending Lower Chapman Street school. The building still stands today and is being used as a mosque.

St Paul's church, Shadwell

Darul Ummah Mosque formally Lower Chapman Street school

Bythe time of the next census on 5th April 1891, Bob and his family were living at 245 Cable Street. His father is listed as a coffee tavern house keeper. Given the nature of local business in the area at the time, it seems likely that the house doubled up as the business premises with the front room providing a place for customers to sit. Bob's mother may have assisted by serving customers in between looking after Bob and his siblings. At this time Bob had an older brother (George) and four sisters. His older sister Sarah was aged sixteen and may have helped out by serving customers. George aged fourteen was working as a clerk at the council. Younger sisters Lily and Edith were at school and the youngest, Emily, was just two years old.

At the turn of the century Bob met a local girl named Charlotte Sherwood, who was the daughter of a dock labourer. Once it became apparent that she was pregnant, they had to get married. The wedding took place on 14th October 1900 at St Paul’s in Shadwell. At that time, the twenty-one year old Bob was working as a 'commercial clerk' and had moved from the family home in Tillman Street and was living in accommodation at 15 Drew's Buildings, 147-151 High Street, Shadwell. As the time of the birth drew closer the couple needed to find more suitable accommodation. In early 1901, they were able to move to 29 Belgrave Street, Stepney. Their son, Robert George Melton, was born shortly afterwards on 22^nd February 1901. Their new baby boy was baptised at St Dunstan and All Saints church in Stepney on 19^th March 1901.

Photo taken circa 1911. Back row: Robert George, William Stanley.
Front row: Edith Dorothy Florence, Charles Bernard,
Winifred Edith Lily

During the course of the following years, Bob and Charlotte moved between a number of addresses in the East End. Their second son, William Stanley, was born on 29^th October 1902. Baby William was baptised at St George-in-the-East on 19^th November 1902. At the time, John and his growing family were lodging with his sister, Sarah and her husbandAlbert at 53 Anthony Street, a street that ran south from Commercial Road just to the west of Watney Street. This was followed by the birth of Winnifred Edith Lily in Limehouse on 15^th January 1905. Little Win was baptised at St James’s church, Butcher Row, Ratcliff on 1^st February 1905. Between Win’s birth and her baptism, the family had moved to 220 Boundary Road, Barking. As the family was growing, Bob must have decided it would be better for them to move to Essex where the air was purer and the quality and size of the housing stock was better. On 4^th December 1907 their second daughter Edith Dorothy Florence was born. Two years later on 19^th March 1910 they had another baby boy named Bernard Charles. The census of 2nd April 1911 reveals that the family had moved to 59 Saxon Road, Ilford which was close to boundary with Barking. By this time Bob was working as a 'shipping clerk'.

Growing tensions overseas culminated in the outbreak of the First World War in August 1914. At the age of thirty-five, Bob would have been too old to volunteer for the regular army. Instead, he joined the 14th Battalion London Regiment which was a unit in the Territorial Army. It seems that while the younger men went to fight on the Western Front or other locations, Bob remained at home and was able to continue his civilian life working as a 'shipping clerk'. The family expanded further with the arrival of Kathleen Agnes Melton on 20^th July 1914 and another son, Arthur Sidney Melton, the following year. As stories of life in the trenches filtered through, he must have been nervous about the prospect of going overseas to fight one day.

That day arrived on 2^nd August 1917. He was summoned to Whitehall and enlisted with the Army’s 56^th (London) Division before being posted to the Western Front. He first saw action two weeks later at the Battle of Langemarck  (Inverness Copse and Glencourse Wood). This battle formed part of the more well-known Battle of Passchendaele which was also known as the Third Battle of Ypres. The battle’s objectives were reached, but a strong German counter-attack threw the London Division back to its original start line. Casualties were 111 officers and 2,794 men over a five day period in the line, most of them as a result of the attack on 16^th August. Following these operations the division withdrew from the line, and moved south to the Cambrai area, taking over trenches at Lagnicourt in early September. 

On the opening day of the Battle of Cambrai, 20^th November 1917, the division was involved in diversionary operations opposite Moeuvres, and two days later they attacked and captured Tadpole Copse and the Hindenburg Line near Moeuvres itself. Here they remained in reserve while the fighting for Bourlon Wood continued. During the German counter-attack, the positions held near Tadpole Copse were overrun and the division forced back towards the old British front line. Casualties at Cambrai were 211 killed, 1,046 wounded and 369 missing. 

After Cambrai the London Division moved to Arras, and took over the line between the Oppy and Gavrelle sectors.

In February 1918 Bob fell ill. His symptoms included headaches, skin rashes, inflamed eyes and leg pains. On 21^st February he was admitted to 42 Casualty Clearing Station, which at this time was situated close to the village of Aubigny in the Somme valley to the east of Amiens. He was diagnosed with ‘Trench Fever’ and his condition was considered serious enough for him to be transferred back to England on 6^th March, where he was admitted to the Birmingham War Hospital.

Bob spent almost three months in hospital. Though ‘Trench Fever’ was not life-threatening its symptoms could be unpleasant as well as debilitating. The patient would seem to recover only to relapse several days later. By 1917 it was one of the more common causes of illness in the trenches. The cause of the condition was not understood until 1918 and this could explain Bob’s extended stay in hospital. In 1918 the cause of ‘Trench Fever’ was identified as excretions from lice, affecting all trenches.  The disease was transmitted via the bites of body lice and was chiefly prevalent on the somewhat warmer Western and Italian Fronts. Lice were rife in the crowded and dirty conditions of the trenches.

On 1^st June 1918 Bob was considered well enough to be discharged from hospital. The army then sent him to Shoreham Camp on the south coast for training. He remained at the camp until October 1918 when he returned to duty with the Army Pay Corps. By this time the Allied forces had broken through the German lines and the First World War ended on 11^th November 1918 at 11am.

Fortunately for Bob, the ‘Trench Fever’ did not leave him with any serious health problems when he was demobilised from the army in 1919. However, he was still granted a disability pension on the grounds that he suffered from occasional rheumatism.

At the end of the war, Charlotte was pregnant again and on 19^th April 1919, Alan Douglas Melton was born. After the armistice life returned to normal and Bob returned to work as a ‘shipping clerk’. It is likely that he would have commuted into the city using the railway which passed through nearby Barking. At weekends he would have occasionally used Barking Station to take his family on outings to Southend. Bob and Charlotte's youngest son, Kenneth, was born on 10th January 1921.

Bob was keen on football and became the club trainer at Barking Town FC. He took on this role when the club was reformed after the war and remained there until at least 1938. During his period with the club they won plenty of silverware including the London League Premier Division (1920/21), London Senior Cup (1926/27) and President’s Cup (1937/38). The club played their home games at Vicarage Field which is now buried under the shopping centre that bears the same name.

1921 Barking Town FC London League Winners Div 1 also Ilford Hospital Shield beat Custom House FC 5-0 at West Ham
John Robert Melton is standing 3rd from the right with a scarf draped over his shoulder

In the twenties and thirties London County Council bought land to the east of Barking and at Becontree near Dagenham. London’s population was increasing and the people needed new places to live, away from the squalor and overcrowding of the East End slums. The area of land at Becontree was developed into the largest council estate in Europe. This massive public spending probably helped to soften the impact of the depression of 1929-1933. The development of the Becontree estate also resulted in the District Line being extended east to Upminster.

In 1934/35 Bob and his family moved to 136 Stratton Drive on Barking’s newly-built Leftley Estate. House prices started from £670 freehold with a £50 deposit. They were built with Crittall windows, roofs were boarded and tiled, and they had a bathroom with a separate lavatory – a luxury in those days. The house also had a relatively large garden which enabled Bob indulge his passion for gardening. By this time Bob had risen through the ranks of the shipping company where he worked and was now a departmental office manager.

Bob and Charlotte "Old Love"

The late thirties once again saw a rise in tensions overseas. Hitler became the chancellor of Germany and despite Prime Minister Neville Chamberlain’s peace summit with Hitler in 1938, Britain found herself at war in September 1939 when Germany reneged on her promise not to invade Poland.

The government immediately put in place measures such as the evacuation of children and the issue of gas masks, however very little actually happened following the declaration of war. This period became known as ’The Phoney War’.

‘The Phoney War’ came to an abrupt end in spring 1940 when Germany invaded the Low Countries and France. The British Expeditionary Force and the French Army were outflanked. Disaster was averted by the miraculous evacuation of British troops from Dunkirk, but with France under Nazi control, Britain was alone. It was only matter of time before Germany would attempt to invade England.

The Battle of Britain had now begun. German fighters attempted to gain control of the skies over South East England, but against the odds the Hurricanes and Spitfires of the Royal Air Force proved to be more than a match for the German aircraft.

On Saturday 7^th September 1940 West Ham United were playing Tottenham Hotspur at the Boleyn Ground. The Hammers were 4-1 up and on course for a famous victory. As the match drew to a close, the skies were darkened by hundreds of enemy aircraft approaching from the east. This day, which came to be known as ’Black Saturday’, was the first air raid that targeted London. The damage and loss of life was immense. The Luftwaffe had changed their tactics.

From ’Black Saturday’ until the 20^th November there were daily and nightly air raids. Bob and his family would have retreated to the Anderson Shelter in the back garden while the bombs fell around them. Though the majority of the bombs fell on the East End neighbourhoods closest to the docks, many fell in the Barking area.

As autumn turned to winter the air raids decreased in frequency and the worst appeared to be over. The air raids did not intensify again until early 1943 with the onset of the ‘Little Blitz’.

By 1944 there was a new menace: flying bombs known as ‘Doodlebugs’ or ‘Buzz Bombs’. These were V1 rockets launched from the Belgian or Dutch coast. Like other East Enders, Bob and Charlotte made the best of it and carried on with their lives. They knew they would be alright as long as they could hear the rocket’s engine as it passed overhead. If the buzzing noise stopped it meant that the rocket had expended its fuel supply and it was only a matter of time before it fell to earth and exploded.

As 1944 became 1945, London was subjected to an even more terrifying threat: the V2 rocket. This new weapon was silent and the first anybody knew about it was when they hit and devastated entire streets. Initially the Churchill government tried to cover up these attacks and would issue heavily censored photographs labelled by the caption ‘gas explosion’. Later, as London was subjected to more attacks, the restrictions were lifted. It is alleged that the government fed false information back to the Germans stating that the rockets were hitting to the west of their intended target, presumably as a means of protecting parliament and the royal family. Consequently it was the areas to the east and south-east that bore the brunt of both the V1 and V2 attacks.  At the time there was a large explosion over Mayesbrook Park  close to Bob and Charlotte’s house. This was attributed to a V2 rocket.

The war finally ended in August 1945 and once the celebrations were over, the enormous task of rebuilding London and re-housing the homeless began. By this time Bob had retired and could spend more time in the garden. In the post war years, he would have enjoyed relaxing and spending time with his wife and children who by now had their own children. They were a close family and his children and grandchildren all lived nearby.

In 1957 Bob became ill with stomach cancer and passed away on 21^st September. Bob’s son, Arthur, was present at his death. He lived through a period of enormous change and elevated the family from the privation of the Victorian East-End to the relative comfort of the middle-class Essex suburbs. Quite an achievement.

Grandad

Alan Douglas Melton, my grandad, was born at 59 Saxon Road, Ilford on 19^th April 1919. Unfortunately, I know little about the early years of his life as the census information for 1921 and 1931 are not available at the time of writing. Also, he passed away when I was only six years old and although I remember him I was too young to ask him detailed questions about his life. Alan produced a scrapbook* of his experiences in World War 2 and it makes for fascinating reading. What I have been able to uncover is based on this, along with conversations with Dad and Grandma plus my own research. 

Family tree showing Alan's parents, siblings and children

Early Years

Alan probably lived at the Saxon Road address throughout his childhood and during his time at school. In those days, most people left school at the age of fourteen and then went to work. Working on this basis, Alan probably left school in the summer of 1933. Britain was recovering from the Depression and there were still almost three million people registered as unemployed. Was he able find employment straight away? It is impossible to tell, however what is certain is that at some point he secured a job at Plessey, the telecommunications manufacturers, based at Vicarage Road, Ilford. In the years that followed he became a progress checker clerk.

1933 was an important year for another reason. Hitler became the chancellor of Germany on the 30^th January. This event and the rise of National Socialism in Germany was to have a profound effect on the future of Alan and others of his generation.

In 1934/35, Alan moved to 136 Stratton Drive on the newly-built Leftley Estate in Barking with his parents and his siblings Bernard, Arthur, Ken and Kath. His elder siblings had all grown up and left home by this stage. Other members of the family made the move to the new estate: Alan’s uncle Albert, auntie Henrietta and cousins Joan, Iris and Pam lived at 10 Halsham Crescent and after he was married in 1936, Alan’s older brother, Arthur, and his wife, Win, lived at 14 Dereham Road. They were a close-knit family and they all lived within a ten minute walk of each other.

Whilst working at Plesseys Alan met a young woman named Daisy who worked in the wages office. In September 1939 Britain declared war on Germany and needed men to fill the ranks of the armed forces. In October 1939, the British government announced that all men aged between 18 and 41 who were not working in ‘reserved occupations’ could be called to join the armed services if required. Conscription was by age and in October 1939 men aged between 20 and 23 were required to register with one of the armed forces. They were allowed to choose between the army, the navy and the air force. Even though Alan was 20 years old, Plesseys was engaged in the war effort and as such he was considered to be working in a reserved occupation.

By 1941 the British government started conscripting single women aged between 20 and 30 to take up work in reserved occupations. This policy enabled those men who previously occupied those jobs to be drafted into the services.

Alan and Daisy on their wedding day

Once Alan learnt that he was going to be called up for service he decided to marry Daisy and they tied the knot at St Margaret’s Church in Barking on 26^th April 1941. After the wedding, they moved into his mother-in-law’s house in Twyford Road, Ilford; but just four days later on 30th April, Alan reported for duty with the army. Alan was assigned to the 2nd Armoured Brigade Company, Royal Army Service Corps (RASC) which was part of the 1st Armoured (White Rhino) Division. Alan commenced his basic training but was allowed a 12 hour pass to visit his wife and family on 7th May. On his return from leave, Alan initially received training as a driver but later passed exams to become an army clerk.

The North African Campaign

Alan left England with the Mediterranean Expeditionary Force on 25th September 1941. The ship he travelled on would have sailed south with a protective convoy across the Atlantic Ocean, around the Cape of Good Hope and then up the coast of East Africa before arriving in Suez, Egypt on 25th November. The division formed part of the newly-named Eighth Army under the stewardship of General Auchinleck. Alan served with a unit that supplied the division and would have been responsible for providing fuel and supplies for tanks and other armoured vehicles. Though he would have probably followed behind the front line, his unit still would have been at risk from air attack and artillery. Like all other soldiers in North Africa he would have experienced the difficulties of life in the desert: searing heat by day and sometimes very cold nights, the dust and sand that clung to sweaty bodies and plagues of flies that became more numerous as the casualties mounted.

Alan’s first serious taste of battle probably occurred on 21^st January 1942 when the German’s under Rommel launched a surprise attack in Cyrenaica (north-eastern Libya), catching the British off-guard and causing damage to the 1^st Armoured Division in the process.  The British retreated and the Eighth Army established a line running south from Gazala, just west of Tobruk. Alan spent the next four months here as the Axis and the Eighth Army faced each other and made their plans for the future.

Rommel struck again on 26^th May and over the course of the next 25 days the Gazala Line collapsed and on 20^th June Tobruk fell. This was regarded as a catastrophe by the Allied forces and only Egypt stood between the Axis and the Middle East and its oil fields. What the Allies didn’t realise is that Rommel had been weakened to such an extent that only the capture of British supplies would enable him to press forward into Egypt. The Eighth Army pulled back to Mersa Matruh on 25^th June where they prepared for the defence of Egypt.

The Germans attacked between the 26^th and 28^th June and managed to encircle the Eighth Army positions. Only a combination of luck and desperate fighting enabled them to break out and retreat to the east. The 1^st Armoured Division encountered German Panzers of the Afrika Korps late in the afternoon of 30^th June close to Tell al Aqqaqir and during a raging sandstorm managed to inflict serious damage on them. Unfortunately, the sandstorm led to the constituent 4^th and 22^nd Brigades losing contact with each other. In a bid to avoid the enemy and minefields the 4^th Brigade had become trapped in soft sand.  

On 1^st July 1942 Rommel attacked the combined British, Commonwealth and Empire forces of the Eighth Army at El Alamein. Only 18 tanks belonging to the 22^nd Brigade of the 1^st Armoured Division where available on the first day of the battle. The tanks of the 4^th Brigade, who had been travelling since 4am, had become trapped in soft sand and were unable to take part in the battle. They spent the remainder of the day struggling in the sand. It wasn’t until nightfall that they wearily pulled themselves out and were able to move south to firmer ground.

Rommel’s plan was to try and encircle the Eighth Army, but instead the Axis ran into stiff resistance. Unfortunately, the Eighth Army failed to capitalise and over the next few days almost managed to grasp defeat from the jaws of victory.

On 2^nd July Rommel tried to attack again. The tanks of the first armoured division engaged the Afrika Korps on the Ruweisat Ridge and once again the Axis were unable to break through. That night the tank crews attended to maintenance and repairs. The axis tried again on 3rd July but once again the attack failed.

Allied attempts to regain ground over the following days began with stalemate and ended in disaster. Poor leadership and a lack of communication between the armoured divisions and the infantry lead to tanks blundering into enemy anti-tank fire and to the infantry receiving no armoured support. There were unnecessary losses during attempts to retake the Ruweisat ridge between 14^th -16^th July and this lead to recriminations and great mistrust between the New Zealand infantry brigades and 1^st Armoured Division. It would have been difficult for Alan to avoid this. Alan would have probably heard about the 23^rd Armoured Division’s near suicidal assault on 22^nd July which led to their annihilation. Fortunately, the Eighth Army had superior numbers and was better equipped to cope with the losses than the Axis forces, yet the Eighth Army still came under enormous political pressure as a result of these perceived failures. Fortunately, as July drew to a close the Eighth Army regained the initiative and managed to end Rommel’s chances of advancing into Egypt, although was once again criticised for failing to destroy Rommel’s army. As a result, Auchinleck was sacked by Winston Churchill and replaced by Montgomery.

Taken in Cairo 1942

After the 1^st Battle of El Alamein, the Eighth Army built up its supplies and received reinforcements. The 1^st Armoured Division received new American Sherman tanks. On 20th August Alan was transferred to the 925 company 2nd Armoured Brigade which was still part of the1st Armoured Division. Several days later the Axis attacked but the attack ended in failure as they were held at Alam el Halfa Ridge on 30^th August. At around this time Montgomery planned an offensive that would push the Axis back into Libya. Alan was granted 4 days’ battle leave and spent 16th September in Cairo where he attended the cinema and visited Al Azbakiya Gardens.

On Friday 23^rd October 1942, the second battle of El Alamein began. The 1^st Armoured Division didn’t take part until dusk on 24^th October when they were engaged by tanks from the 15^th Panzer Division and the Italian Littorio Division. This was the first major tank battle of El Alamein with over 100 tanks involved. By nightfall over half were destroyed and no ground was yielded by either side. This situation continued for several days. Each time the tanks advanced they were repelled by anti-tank guns. However, by the end of Thursday 29^th October the British still had 800 tanks in operation, while the Axis had just 148 German and 187 Italian tanks.

To break the deadlock, Montgomery ordered a new phase of attack codenamed Operation Supercharge. On Monday 2^nd November, the tanks of the 1^st Armoured Division followed the 9^th Armoured Brigade through a path that had been cleared through an enemy minefield. 9^th Armoured Brigade bore the brunt of the enemy anti-tank guns and was largely destroyed. The surviving units came under the command of the 1^st Armoured Division and were eventually able to break through.

On 4^th November, the 1^st Armoured Division came into contact with the remnants of the 21^st Panzer and spent the day slowly pushing them back 8 miles. In order to deepen the armoured thrusts, 1^st Armoured were directed at El Daba, some 15 miles down the coast. In a bid to penetrate even further Montgomery ordered them to take a wide detour through the desert to Bir Khalda, 80 miles with a view to swinging up to cut the road at Mersa Matruh. The move proved unsuccessful and 1^st Armoured attempted to make up time with a night march, but in the darkness, the armour became separated from their support vehicles and as a consequence ran out of fuel on 6^th November 16 miles short of Bir Khalda.

By 11am on 6^th November the “B” Echelon support vehicles were starting to re-connect with the armour, but only enough to partly refuel two of the armoured regiments. They set off again hoping to cut off the enemy but ran out of fuel again 30 miles south west of Mersa Matruh. A fuel convoy set off from El Alamein but became bogged down once rain started to fall and was unable to re-supply the support vehicles.

1^st Armoured played no further part between 7^th and 11^th November as the ground conditions had deteriorated following heavy rain. However, during this period Rommel retreated and the battle was over. Evidently, Alan's hard work supplying the front line during this challenging time had impressed his superiors, since on 19th December he was transferred to 656 General Transport Company and promoted to the rank of corporal. 656GT was a temporary transport company hastily assembled to ensure supply was maintained to supply the rapidly advancing front line as the axis forces retreated westwards. The unit’s nickname was “The Tobruk-Bengahazi Haulage Contractors Limited” and they moved supplies and replacement vehicles that were landed at Tobruk, up to the forward supply depots some 600 miles away, starting on 9 January.  Whilst this activity was ongoing, the remainder of the 1st Armoured Division moved forward to be located closer to the port city of Benghazi. On 23rd January, the 8th Army moved forward and captured Tripoli, which was a major port and the capital of Italian Libya.  The remaining German and Italian Forces retired into Tunisia, where other forces were fighting a combined British, American and French force pushing into Tunisia from Algeria which had been invaded in November 1942.

Libyan  Desert 1943

Over the course of the next six months the Eighth Army pushed the Axis back through Libya and into Tunisia where they made a stand at the Mareth Line. Tunis was taken by the Allies on 13^th May 1943 and the enemy surrendered in large numbers. The North African campaign was over.

On 1st September 1943 as preparations for the invasion of Sicily were being made, Alan and his unit were transferred to the British North Africa Force (BNAF). While the 1st Armoured Division had been chasing the Germans and Italians across the Libyan Desert, the BNAF had parachuted into the French colonies of Algeria and Morocco which were now under Axis control. After some initial resistance, the Vichy French garrisons had surrendered and the territory fell under Allied control. Alan and other Allied troops were billeted to farms in Algeria and Morocco. Alan spent Christmas Day 1943 at Oued El Alleug, Algeria.

The Italian Campaign

As the Allies invaded Sicily and then Italy, the 1^st Armoured Division remained in North Africa. It was not until May 1944 that the division was posted to Italy to bolster an offensive that would push up the “boot” of Italy towards Rome. Alan landed in Naples on or around 27th May 1944, but in the event 1^st Armoured was held in reserve and Rome was taken by the US 5^th Army.

The Eighth Army was then switched to the Adriatic coast of Italy. The 1^st Armoured Division did not see any action until Operation Olive whose objective was to break through the Gothic Line and conquer Rimini. Between 3^rd and 4^th September 1944 the first battle of Coriano began. The 1^st Armoured Division, exhausted after a 50-hour march to arrive at the front, was ordered to attack the Coriano ridge. Rain fell incessantly and the tanks were soon bogged down. When the tanks appeared in the sight of the defending Germans they were sitting ducks for their 88mm guns. At the end of the first day just 79 out of the original 156 Sherman tanks were still fit for battle. The fighting continued for two days with terrible losses on both sides, but the Germans held their position.

Between the 12^th and 13^th September the Allies made another attempt to take the Coriano ridge and were successful on this occasion. The 1^st Armoured Division took the nearby village of San Clemente. The Eighth Army then pursued the Germans but the 1^st Armoured Division was held up at the Fornacci stream which had become swollen from 10 days of heavy rain and could not be crossed by the tanks.

Taken in Florence 1944

After Operation Olive, 1^st Armoured ceased to be viable division and was converted to infantry. However, Alan's unit survived and he was promoted to the rank of sergeant on 23rd November.

During the winter 1944/45 the Germans prevented the Eighth Army from advancing north across the Lombardy plain, but during the spring months the Germans were driven north towards the Alps and the war was over. Alan was given leave to return home on 30th May 1945. He remained at home until 24th July before returning to Italy with the Central Mediterranean Force, which at the time was presumably engaged in post war reconstruction work. Alan returned home again on 26th August but stayed on with the army until 9th August 1946.

After the war

On 14^th June 1946 Alan and Daisy’s first son, Keith, was born at Ilford Maternity Hospital. Eleven months later, on 8^th July 1947, their second son, Barry, was born in Bath. Alan returned to work with Plesseys as an accountant after being demobbed from the army.

The next sequence of events is not entirely clear, however at some point (probably in the early 1950s) the family moved to 11 Reynolds Court in Chadwell Heath. The flat was on the third floor of a brand-new council development about half a mile north of the Eastern Avenue. Why did they move? Well, the reason is that Alan’s mother-in-law (whom they were living with at Twyford Road) sold the house and moved in with her son Bert. As Alan and Daisy had two young children they were treated as a priority by the council’s housing department.

Seven Kings FC circa 1957

By all accounts the flats were noisy and many of the neighbours were people who had been bombed out of the East End during the war. It was a rough place. Alan and his family endured it until around 1959 by which time they had saved enough for a deposit to buy a new bungalow at 166 Lodge Lane, Collier Row. The bungalow was christened ’Sherwood Lodge’ in honour of Alan’s mother.

Alan enjoyed playing and watching football. He used to play for Seven Kings FC and would occasionally take Keith and Barry to watch West Ham United on a Saturday afternoon.

Plesseys business increased dramatically in the post-war years and they were at the forefront of developing digital telephone systems. The success of the company meant that Alan and his family were comfortable and he was able save money for his retirement.

The serious business of cribbage

Shortly after Alan and Daisy’s silver wedding anniversary in 1966 the family moved to a newly-built three-bedroomed semi-detached house at 32 Norton Road in Ingatestone. Ingatestone was, and still is, considered to be a desirable village and the move suggests how financially comfortable Alan had become. From the late 1960s onwards Alan and Daisy enjoyed holidays abroad to the Mediterranean and then later as far afield as Australia to visit his sister Kath who had previously emigrated down under.

The arrival of grandchildren in the 1970s provided Alan and Daisy with further joy and although we were very young we used to look forward to seeing granddad and grandma for Sunday lunch. He used to clown around with all of us: Natalie, Janine, Clare and me. We were always taken to the sweet shop after lunch and it’s amazing we don’t have many fillings!

Life can be cruel sometimes. As Alan was approaching retirement and was looking forward to the prospect, his health started to deteriorate. At first he attributed his increasing breathlessness to just old age. He was a smoker after all. Unfortunately, the underlying cause of the problem was much worse and more sinister.

As a boy, Alan had grown up just half a mile from the Cape Asbestos factory in Barking and had inadvertently breathed in some of the lethal fibres. The combination of the asbestos and his smoking resulted in Mesothelioma, a cancer of the lungs. Towards the end I distinctly remember seeing my granddad sitting in his favourite chair which had a large oxygen tank next to it. Alan died at home on 5^th December 1980 and was laid to rest at Chelmsford crematorium.

Alan lived through a period of enormous change: from the economic turmoil of the Thirties through the Second World War and into the post war period with its relative prosperity. Major technological advances greatly improved the quality of life and enable travel on a scale which his forebears could have only dreamed was possible.